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Although I didn’t happen across a nice domestic British book (you may recall I was pining for one in a previous post), I did pick up The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake while at a recent library visit. Reviewers called this book “magical realism,” which is true, I suppose, although not how I usually think of it.

Written by Aimee Bender, it tells the story of 8-year-old Rose Edelstein.  On Rose’s 9th birthday she discovers, while eating her birthday cake, that she can taste the emotions of the chef. In this case, the chef is her mother, and the sensations are not at all pleasant.

We follow Rose, and her somewhat unusual and disfunctional family, through her early 20s and in her search for a way to deal with her mysterious ability.

I loved the idea of her affliction. Not only can she tell how the baker or cook is feeling, but she can also trace back all the ingredients to their sources–and she knows if the cows are depressed, if the factory workers are bitter, and if the ingredients are really organic.

Rose is a great character, one of my favorites. She doesn’t feel sorry for herself, her parents love her, she’s not a misunderstood genius or spoiled brat. And she eventually finds direction and resolution in her life all by herself.

Our Lily

This morning I had to take Lily to the vet to have her euthanized, and I am so sad. She was 15, very elderly for a large (80-pound) dog, and her hips and legs were gone, she could only hobble around, her kidneys were going, and other old-age ailments.  She went peacefully, with me holding her.

I miss her.

Lily was part Chow, and so very limited in selecting the people in her life. But to us she was very loving, sweet, stalwart, and funny. She had the most intelligent eyes, the most expressive eyebrows, and she was the most gorgeous color of auburn or russet.

I know this is a part of life, the circle of life, but why does it seem so unfair? I’m just glad to have known and loved her.

Goodbye Lily, and sleep peacefully, run after cats and rabbits, and have all the dog biscuits, pork chops, steaks, and McDonald’s french frys you want.

A small series of stuffed animal portraits.

Bear and Bunny Engagement Portrait

Puppy Portrait, First Day of School

Bunny in a Summer Dress

Now, I’ve always been very attached to stuffed animals, as is Miss NightSky. They are friends, and, if it’s not too dorky to say, I kind of think they have little animal souls. They definitely each have a personality.

Two bedrooms

Another two watercolors, both bedrooms. These I did while “inside.” I can’t tell you what joy and relief discovering painting and, in this case, watercolor brought to my life. Well, I guess I just did. The mental and stress relief was immense. And the wonder of creating something that looked like something that I liked and that other people liked…fabulous.

Before we ever moved here, to the low desert of California, the Palm Springs area, I lived in the outskirts of Los Angeles.  My parents started coming to Palm Springs on vacation and eventually bought a small hotel there. The same hotel Mr. NightSky and I were to own much later (and more disasterously).

Let’s take a look at 1961:

Here I am modeling a quite fetching hat, in front of the mid-century modern architectural landmark Sherman’s Deli. You’d be able to see it today, except that the city tore it down shortly after this, to replace it with . . . an empty lot. And it’s still an empty lot. Now, that’s progress.

My dad and I (giggling girlishly), also in front of Sherman’s. Ah, that hat. I do remember being quite taken with it. My Dad looks awfully dressed up for a vacation lunch!

And, finally, Mom and I. She looks pretty cute, huh? Check out that cool straw purse! I wish I had those sunglasses today. And we’re both wearing Keds! Unfortunately, I still have the hat.

Here’s publicity shot of Sherman’s. A great site to check out, if you like Palm Springs Mid-Century Modern and Palm Springs history: http://psmodcom.org/

Back at the hotel. I wish I knew what hotel this was. Probably on the main drag, Palm Canyon, and at the north end, when you come into town. Remember when public pools REQUIRED swim caps? Torture! But at least mine is nicely color-coordinated.

On these driving trips, we traveled from Downey or Tustin to Palm Springs in my Dad’s TR6 (this is not an actual photo of my Dad’s car, but his was red, just like this one). Yes, I traveled the freeway dangerously stuffed in the flimsy back seat with no seatbelt and with a so-called TOP that would crush if you simply leaned against it. Carefree days of youth!

This photo is undated, but I’m guessing maybe the next year? And this hotel is definitely on North Palm Canyon, and is still there (sorry, don’t know what it’s called now). I really enjoyed that pool. Here I am striking the model pose. I still remember that bathing suit (and there’s the required swim cap tossed cavalierly off to the side of the pool)–it was something like a wool blend, so when it got wet it STAYED wet. And stayed scratchy. Must have been on sale.

Dad and I really enjoying ourselves, as you can see. We’re showing off that we have the same hairline. This location is at the corner of Palm Canyon and Tahquitz–right smack dab in the middle of downtown Palm Springs. I think this is where the Starbucks is now. Across the street behind us you can see Louisa’s Pantry, a local landmark that of course was forced to move to Palm Desert and go out of business. And, the Plaza movie theatre, now home to the Palm Springs Follies stage show (only during season, vacant the rest of the year). This was a fabulous movie theatre, must have been built in the 40s, and the interior looks like an exterior stage set, complete with “stars” in the sky/ceiling. I saw Jaws there, and The Godfather, and more. Back then Palm Springs had two movie theatres downtown, both on Palm Canyon (I saw Earthquake and Chinatown at the other). Plus the Camelot Theatres in the east end of town. (Planet of the Apes, The French Connection). 

So, it’s strange from time to time, living here. I see the past and the present, what used to be and what is. Good memories, bad memories, people who are still in my life, and those who are dead now. But all these “new” people–what are they doing here, in MY Palm Springs?

So true!

“If we could sell our experiences for what they cost us, we’d be millionaires.”

–Abigail Van Buren

After several months of NOT painting, I’m trying to make sure I spend some time each week working on my watercoloring. “Working” is not really the best word choice, because it’s not work. It’s relaxing and uses a different part of my brain. I always feel more in balance after a painting session. Not that I’m expecting to make a living or get international acclaim with my paintings, but I think the process is what’s important, what I get out of it.

Two recent small paintings:

 

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